

Honestly, I can say the biggest regret I have is buying that golf course. We bought it when it was overpriced, during the golf boom. It put a strain on us financially, and it put a strain on our marriage. If this hadn't happened, I can't say my wife and I would still be together."
Doctors, Elam said, assured him that his vision would return to normal. When it didn't, he was referred to the Cleveland Clinic. Eventually, he regained partial sight in his left eye, a sensation he described as relatively normal close-up, but increasingly cloudy the farther away an object appears. To this day, he remains completely blind in his right eye. That reality, coupled with a sinking golf industry, was enough to get him out of the business of owning a golf course. Ironically, he had to lean on his wife heavily for support. About 100 miles separated the Elam's home, then in Bowling Green, Ohio, and Blackberry Patch. Each week, he would leave for the golf course on Monday morning and return home on Saturday evening, spending weeknights in hotels or in members' vacant summer cottages near the golf course, leaving his wife and twin daughters at home. When he returned home for the weekends, his mind often was elsewhere, usually on work. It was not an ideal situation for anyone involved. "I was gone all the time," Elam said. "Even when I was home, I wasn't really here mentally." Life now is a lot different. Elam can't drive a car. He can play golf - with help. Some people would resent such a fate, but Elam embraces it and welcomes the positive changes it has brought to his life. "Honestly, I can say the biggest regret I have is buying that golf course. We bought it when it was overpriced, during the golf boom," he said. "It put a strain on us financially, and it put a strain on our marriage. If this hadn't happened, I can't say my wife and I would still be together. "This whole thing has made us really close." He even manages to get out and play golf a couple of times a month with help from his wife or daughters. "I can see the top of the ball in the grass, but someone has to stand behind me and help me aim and watch my ball," he said. "I'm OK off the tee, and my second shot's not too bad. Where I have problems are pitch shots from 20 to 30 yards. I can't see the pin, so my shot is based on what someone tells me. Same with putting. I have to walk to the hole and back and feel the undulations underneath me. "I'd like to have my vision back to play golf. How I played then, and how I play now, there is a big difference. I'm still able to do everything at the golf course. I work the counter. Until a customer gets close I can't see a face, but I function OK. Nobody knows I'm blind, and they don't need to know" Until now.
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